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Divorcing a Narcissist

Divorcing a Narcissist Divorcing a narcissist often means a long and vicious court battle.  Documenting the narcissistic abuse and vindictiveness is crucial in child custody issues.  We know what to look for and how to present the evidence.  Narcissistic research indicates these people never, ever change.  They typically have a new partner before they leave the old one.  Don't be fooled, it's just a matter of time before the new partner begins to experience the same abuse you and potentially your children have known.  Be prepared to confront the narcissistic with the facts of their conduct and behavior.  This may be the fight of your life and we are here to support you. Call us today at (919) 878-9988 to speak with an investigator and find out how we can help! Contact Cat or Michael Catherine and Michael Flowers are private invesitgators in the North Carolina area.  They have worked hundreds of cases involving infidelity, child custody and divorce.

Business Trip Surveillance

Business Trip Surveillance Too often, cheating occurs while one partner is away on a business trip or a vacation with friends, and there is no better opportunity for a cheater to engage in adultery. We are available and skilled in the art of conducting surveillance on those cheaters who travel long distances away from the home. Distance between you and your spouse will cause them to “let down their guard” and become relaxed, and in these situations we have an ideal opportunity to obtain proof of infidelity. Call us today at (919) 878-9988 to speak with an investigator and find out how we can help! Contact Cat or Michael Catherine and Michael Flowers are private invesitgators in the North Carolina area.  They have worked hundreds of cases involving infidelity, child custody and divorce.

2022-12-06T11:31:44-05:00Categories: Infidelity Cheating Investigations|Tags: , |

Child Custody Evaluations

Child Custody Evaluations With divorce, children are the primary concern, and child custody issues are often the reason for initiating an investigation. In some cases, the court-appointed primary custodian may not be the best choice for the child, for reasons such as inappropriate or illegal activities and/or behaviors that are not suitable. Or, your ex-spouse might begin dating an individual who has a criminal record, including a sexual assault or other criminal conviction. Perhaps your ex-spouse makes a habit of dropping your child off at a babysitter so he or she can go out and socialize, or even worse, your ex-spouse may be abusing your child. If you choose to challenge court-ordered child custody matters, it is your duty to prove your case; the more evidence that you have, the more successful you will likely be, and Cat’s Eye Private Investigations can help you build a case that will assist you in showing the courts why you deserve custody of your child. With child custody cases, you must show “patterns” and as such the case may take some time to build a case that is compelling and convincing. The courts generally are not interested in an “isolated incident” of your ex-spouse engaging in activities or behaviors that are inappropriate. However, we will be there with you along the way with the skills, experience and support to help you build a case that can win you custody of the child. In all domestic matters, Cat’s Eye Private Investigations has the resources and knowledge to help you obtain evidence of your suspicions, arming you with the tools to empower yourself and take back what is rightfully yours. Call us now at (919) 878-9988 to speak with an investigator. Contact Cat or Michael Catherine and Michael Flowers are private invesitgators in the North Carolina area.  They have worked hundreds of cases involving infidelity, child custody and divorce.

2022-12-28T08:28:15-05:00Categories: Infidelity Cheating Investigations|Tags: |

Infidelity: Should I Contact an Attorney?

Contacting an Attorney If you intend to take the matter to court, we advise that you do consult with an attorney, who can guide you in the right direction . For example, you should never allow a friend or relative to intervene on your behalf and investigate on their own, not only because it is dangerous, but also because evidence obtained illegally cannot be used in court. All evidence obtained by Cat’s Eye Private Investigations will be obtained legally, so your case in court, should you choose that route, will not be undermined. Even more, our investigative reports are written to a high-quality legal standard that is admissible in a court of law. I If needed, our investigators are also available to testify on your behalf to any activity they may have witnessed during surveillance. Consulting with an attorney is a good way to protect yourself and your family, and ensure that your case goes as smoothly as possible. If you would like, Cat’s Eye Private Investigations will be glad to provide you with some names of family attorneys that can guide you through the difficult process. Please call us at (919) 878-9988 for more information. Contact Cat or Michael Catherine and Michael Flowers are private invesitgators in the North Carolina area.  They have worked hundreds of cases involving infidelity, child custody and divorce.

Signs of Cheating

Signs of Cheating Is my partner cheating? If you suspect your spouse or partner of cheating, Cat’s Eye Private Investigations can help you get the answers you need. You may have noticed some of these common signs of cheating in your partner: Seems distant or disconnected and/or sexually disinterested Lies more frequently Goes out more frequently than usual, and more often without me Keeps a close watch on their cellular phone and/ or appears to delete text and voice messages frequently Has whereabouts you cannot account for at times Takes more time than expected to return home from work or when going out Makes unusual purchases, or you have found receipts from locations or times where you were not together Has made recent changes to their appearance or exercise habits (e.g., haircut, clothes, going to the gym more often) Receives calls or text messages from strange numbers or people you don’t recognize Behaves defensively when asked about their whereabouts or behavior Uses the computer or Internet more frequently or secretly Even if you only have a “feeling” that something is wrong in your relationship, you deserve the truth and peace of mind to put your worries at ease. But confronting your partner without evidence can lead to even more problems. Cat’s Eye Private Investigations can obtain proof for you that will not only provide you with peace of mind, but also with quality investigative reports that are legally-admissible court evidence, should you need it. How do we find out the truth? The best way to determine whether your partner is cheating on you is to conduct surveillance on them when they are away from you. First, we will work with you to establish an investigative plan that meets the needs of your unique situation, planning surveillance at the most opportune time in order to most efficiently and effectively conduct the investigation. Our investigators will follow your partner and obtain videotape footage of their activities [...]

Confronting Infidelity

Confronting Infidelity Discovering that your partner is cheating can be devastating.  When children are involved the emotional stakes can become overwhelming.  Your first decision should be to confirm the affair.  There are real benefits associated with this choice.  It is extremely common for partners to simply lie and deny the affair. The "lie and deny" phase represents gaslighting.  You want to believe they are NOT cheating, that all of this is NOT real.  You want to believe that YOU are mistaken, that your concept of reality is not real, none of this is real.  If you are being cheated on choosing to accept the lie represents and insidious, demeaning and damaging choice to your mental and physical health. Your partner is training you NOT to trust your own judgment, your instincts, your grasp on reality.  They want you to allow them to manipulate and control you.  Having indisputable knowledge of the reality of the affair will help you make an informed decision regarding the next steps in your relationship and your life. What Is Gaslighting? Gaslighting is commonly recognized as emotional manipulation.  The purpose is to control the partner by manipulating them to accept their distorted view of reality rather than trust their own judgment. The term “gaslighting” comes from the 1938 play Angel Street.  In the film Gaslight, directed by Alfred Hitchcock, a husband contrives to convince his wife that she is going insane, that her perception or reality is false.  He turns on the lights in the attic to search for her jewelry collection causing the gas lights in their home to dim.  He denies this reality telling her this is all in her imagination causing her to question her own memories and perceptions. Gaslighting typically takes place in abusive relationships and is closely associated with other types of emotional and physical abuse. While gaslighting is most common in romantic relationships, it can also occur within family or workplace relationships. Contact Cat or [...]

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